Life at 60: Why It’s Better, Bolder, and More Fun

Life after 60 can be your most vibrant chapter yet. Discover why this stage brings more joy, confidence, and freedom than ever.

When I turned 60, I’ll admit—I dreaded it. Sixty seemed like an age where life might slow down, where new opportunities would be few and far between. But, oh, how wrong I was. After some initial reluctance, I’ve realized this decade is bursting with potential, adventure, and a sense of freedom I’ve never felt before..

Breaking Free from Aging Myths

One of the biggest misconceptions about turning 60 is that life somehow becomes smaller, more limited. Let me tell you—it’s the opposite. This is the time when you stop caring so much about what others think and start living for yourself. Whether it’s traveling solo to Portugal (yes, I did that!) or finally starting this blog to share my passions, 60 is about rediscovering who you are and embracing it unapologetically.

Confidence Comes Naturally When You’ve Seen It All

At 20, you worried about how you looked. At 30, you were consumed with your children and or career, At 40, you were busy juggling life’s endless to-do list. By 60 (or beyond), you realize none of those things matter nearly as much as loving who you are. Confidence after 60 comes from experience, resilience, and knowing your worth—flaws and all.

Confidence at this stage isn’t about looking good for others—it’s about feeling amazing for yourself.

You’ve Mastered the Art of “No”

By 60, I realized that “no” isn’t rude—it’s self-care. Whether it’s declining a party invite you’re not in the mood for or refusing to get caught up in someone else’s drama, saying no feels like a superpower.I think learning to say no is one of the biggest perks of aging. You can finally stop saying “yes” to everything and everyone.

Energy for What Really Matters

Let’s be honest: I don’t have the endless energy I had at 40. But here’s the thing—at 60, I don’t waste energy on things that don’t matter. Toxic relationships? Keeping up appearances? Chasing perfection? What I do have energy for: family and friends, learning new things and taking care of myself.

Energy at 60 isn’t about doing more; it’s about doing what truly brings you joy.

Adventure Awaits

Adventures after 60 are about rediscovering who you are, trying things you never thought you’d love, and embracing the freedom to explore life at your own pace. Whether it’s picking up a paintbrush for the first time, climbing mountains, or trying something completely out of your comfort zone, this stage of life offers endless opportunities for meaningful and unexpected experiences.

I’ve tried things I never had the courage or time to before—like Pilates, solo travel, and writing. Now, at 60, I finally have time to explore—and it’s been nothing short of magical.nothing short of magical.

Living Boldly and Authentically

Perhaps the boldest thing I’ve done recently is starting this blog, Age Has No Limits. It’s a way for me to share my journey and remind others that aging is something to celebrate, not fear. If I could tell my younger self one thing, it would be this: Life’s too short to be anyone but yourself.

Friendships Become Deeper and More Meaningful

At this age, your friendships are about quality, not quantity. Gone are the days of shallow connections—you’re building relationships with people who truly lift you up and make life brighter.

Make time for your closest friends. Whether it’s a coffee date or a quick call, those moments are priceless.

Appreciating the Little Things (and the Big Laughs)

When I was 40, I was too busy looking ahead and taking care of my children to enjoy the moment. Now, at 60, I’ve learned to savor the small things—time with my children, the beautiful mountains outside my window, or a snow covered hike. It’s not about chasing the next big milestone anymore—it’s about finding joy in the everyday.

And laughter? It’s my favorite part of life at this age. Whether it’s laughing at myself for losing my car keys or laughing with friends over stories from our youth, humor keeps me young at heart.

You’ve Perfected the Art of Letting Go

At 40, I clung to worries, things and expectations like they were badges of honor. By 60, I’ve learned that letting go is one of life’s greatest gifts. By this point, you know what’s worth stressing over and what’s not. Grudges? Perfectionism? Worrying about what people think? Letting go is one of the most liberating perks of aging—it’s like decluttering your mind and heart.

There’s nothing more satisfying than finally realizing you don’t have to hold on to anything that doesn’t serve you.

Your Stories Are Your Superpower

The best part of being 60? The stories. With age comes wisdom—life lessons that you’ve learned the hard way and insights that younger generations envy. You’ve got advice for days, and let’s be honest, you’ve earned the right to share it. Whether it’s advice on navigating tough times or hilarious anecdotes from your youth, your experiences are a treasure trove worth sharing.

My kids and grandson love hear stories of about my life. They can’t believe some of the things I did and the clothes I wore and honestly, neither can I. But those stories bring us closer, and that’s what matters most.

Final Thoughts

I didn’t think this at the time, but being in my 60s has taught me how to live fully. I’m bolder now than I was in my 40s, more comfortable in my own skin, and finally free from the pressure of constantly proving myself. Growing older comes with freedoms and joys your younger self couldn’t even imagine.

What am I most looking forward to in this decade? Living on my own terms. With fewer responsibilities, I’m ready to dive into the passions and dreams I’ve set aside for so long. Whether it’s traveling, horseback riding, or simply enjoying the freedom to try new things, the best is truly yet to come.